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My group of friends at school is starting to drink and smoke. I don’t really feel comfortable doing it, but I don’t want to look like a loser if I don’t. How do I say “no” to them without feeling left out?

DWQA Questions分类: addiction and substance abuseMy group of friends at school is starting to drink and smoke. I don’t really feel comfortable doing it, but I don’t want to look like a loser if I don’t. How do I say “no” to them without feeling left out?
Anonymous asked 9 年 ago
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CCHRC answered 9 年 ago

There are ways to stay close to your friends even though they are exploring things you are not comfortable with.  Try to propose activities that do not involve alcohol/drugs, such as watching a movie or going to the park.  If they are your real friends, they will not see you as a “loser.”
But if you feel left out, talk to them about how you feel and maybe together you can come up with a solution.  Keep in mind that you don’t have to do everything that your friends are involved in to remain friends.
 
For information on how to combat peer pressure:
https://www.teensincharge.org/topics/dating-and-relationships/peer-pressure/
http://www.thecoolspot.gov/pressures.aspx